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I am attracted to a woman older than me...

03 May 2017

I am a 24 year old man. I like to call myself a man and not a boy because I have grown up sexually, spiritually and even success wise.

 I run a successful start-up at this age. I draw home a cheque of 5lacs a month and my start-up has a decent valuation.

I have achieved what people achieve in their late 20’s. This maturity level is also reflecting in my other departments of life.

Like the woman I am attracted to. She is in her 30’s and works in my company. Ever since I have seen her, I am dying to be with her. She is sorted, confident, matured and a class act!

Women my age still talk about ice-creams and shopping, while she talks of spirituality, of meaning of life, of growth and of vision.

She is beautiful and her laughter is infectious. She is beautiful. Her dusky skin, her long hair and her voluptuous body, all drive me crazy....

I am so attracted to her that I cannot put my mind to rest. When I think of this, I also feel I am odd. I feel a bit ashamed that I am hitting and dying to be with a woman who is not only older than me but also my employee.

 I mean how do I go about it... I cannot directly tell her as this can cause real issues. She may take it as my way of taking advantage from a position of seniority.

Not being able to tell her and still fantasising myself in a romantic relationship with her is killing me from INSIDE.

I want to have her in my life, make love to her, be with her, hold her through her waist and love her madly. I want to even marry her if she is ready...

I want to spend more time with her, go out on coffee dates and be her man!

But I don’t know if she would even find me worthy... I am too young, may be naive for her.... I feel so insecure, so powerless in this situation...

I just don’t know if I am right or wrong. And if I am wrong, how do I get her off my thoughts. Her thoughts have intoxicated me...

She seems so authentic, so raw and so real... I feel I am not the same man any more.... I am struggling with these feelings. What do I do, I don’t know...

I really don’t know....

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