Sexual compatibility in marriage is critical for a happy relationship!
01 Oct 2015
Here is a small list of questions that will help every couple analyse their own definition of sexual intimacy and know their compatibility on it.
·Is sexual intimacy really important to you?
·Do you think your partner is as romantic as you?
·Are you physically drawn towards your partner?
·Do you think that your partner is physically drawn towards you?
·Are there different ways in which you express your physical attraction to you partner?
·Are you happy with the foreplay that you guys do?
· Do you reach orgasm atleast 60% of the time you have sex?
·Can you and your partner sit together and talk about your sexual relations openly about what you like and not like as much?
If you said No for any more than 3 questions then there is a definite sexual incompatibitility that you and your spouse are grappling with!
How can couples build upon their sexual & physical intimacy?
Ø Communicate with your partner and don’t shy away
Communication is the most important key in every aspect of one’s marriage. Your partner need to know everything about you and your desires. If some acts you want to include and exclue from your sexual act, then speak up!
Ø Have a reality check
Knowing your future partners likes and dislikes in bed is not enough. It’s very important to even know if you could live with these likes/dislikes and if not then make some bargains so that both you are comfortable!
Ø Be open to change and leave your prejudices about physical intimacy outside your relation
And age old belief e.g. “women can’t initiate sex”, “women have to comply with all physical demands”, “experimenting in bed is cheap”, "oral is bad" etc. Get rid of these prejudices and be open to talking about then in your relation.
Ø Respect each other choices, wants and desires in physically intimacy
Ø Believe in keeping your relationship fresh.
Ø Avoid talking about your physical relations to your close friends as it may bias you.
Ø Make the effort and put your egos away.
Ø Make your relation a journey of exploration.
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